So people are into relationships these days, either its straight or gay. I guess I’m on the stage were everywhere you hear people hooking up with whom and etc. I have to admit that it’s getting annoying since I’m alone on that status yet I’m contented of the status I stand. But there these two friends who keep on clinging to each other.
I know I should be supportive of him but no matter what I try to wake the hell up, he will again use some kind of excuse or reasons that someday or somehow they will end up being together. As for the other party, she has gone gay. Gay of trying hooking up with the same sex. It’s a really bad coping mechanism actually from a past relationship that has brought her to change perspectives. It’s really annoying considering she wants it hidden but the actions are so fuck up lame. I mean you can clearly see the evidence and just trying too hard to impress on someone. I don’t know it’s just that this person is so smart on other aspects but chose the path of stupidity.
So I have been a witness of this relationship for years now. The guy is so helplessly hoping for things to work out, I mean he even considers some small body language as of a bigger deal. Hello of course you would make it a big deal since your so into her. As for the girl, she knows that the guy has a serious crush on her but then she just keeps it on the friend status. No idea on the detailed parts but even after college the guy is still clinging on somehow. But the girl has other plans. As she stated that they are just friends.
On my angle or anyone’s angle, you would see that the girl has somehow created a relationship to the guy that somehow no matter what she would do or have, this guy would be around and picks her up no matter what. Like being in a safety net. I don’t know if the guy sees this but I guess he does. I mean for crying out loud he only sees her when hanging out with the gang. His ears are so glued to the girl and that it’s kinda insulting to us. Insulting to that fact that even if we ask a decent conversation, he would stop just too get the girl’s attention. He says so many things that he doesn’t care or anything about her but his actions proves that he already ate his words. I also have this theory that he keeps on bugging out for hangs out so at least he has an excuse to be again with the girl. I don’t know it’s just that I don’t want to be the babysitter again. Yes I experienced being the third tag along and it sucked a lot.
The ironies of being on a safety net. As I look closer on some future possibilities, there is a great deal on that the guy will get the girl. I don’t know but still it’s a pity being on a safety net; being last or just an option. All I can say is good luck to both of them. It’s just that I know there a lots people out there being on a safety net kind of relationship, I say just stop and find another one than clinging on to someone. It’s better to leave and be single than hoping for someone that no matter how you put your acts on him/her, nothing will ever happen rather than friendship. It’s true that being on a friend zone is different on being the lover.
I know I should be supportive of him but no matter what I try to wake the hell up, he will again use some kind of excuse or reasons that someday or somehow they will end up being together. As for the other party, she has gone gay. Gay of trying hooking up with the same sex. It’s a really bad coping mechanism actually from a past relationship that has brought her to change perspectives. It’s really annoying considering she wants it hidden but the actions are so fuck up lame. I mean you can clearly see the evidence and just trying too hard to impress on someone. I don’t know it’s just that this person is so smart on other aspects but chose the path of stupidity.
So I have been a witness of this relationship for years now. The guy is so helplessly hoping for things to work out, I mean he even considers some small body language as of a bigger deal. Hello of course you would make it a big deal since your so into her. As for the girl, she knows that the guy has a serious crush on her but then she just keeps it on the friend status. No idea on the detailed parts but even after college the guy is still clinging on somehow. But the girl has other plans. As she stated that they are just friends.
On my angle or anyone’s angle, you would see that the girl has somehow created a relationship to the guy that somehow no matter what she would do or have, this guy would be around and picks her up no matter what. Like being in a safety net. I don’t know if the guy sees this but I guess he does. I mean for crying out loud he only sees her when hanging out with the gang. His ears are so glued to the girl and that it’s kinda insulting to us. Insulting to that fact that even if we ask a decent conversation, he would stop just too get the girl’s attention. He says so many things that he doesn’t care or anything about her but his actions proves that he already ate his words. I also have this theory that he keeps on bugging out for hangs out so at least he has an excuse to be again with the girl. I don’t know it’s just that I don’t want to be the babysitter again. Yes I experienced being the third tag along and it sucked a lot.
The ironies of being on a safety net. As I look closer on some future possibilities, there is a great deal on that the guy will get the girl. I don’t know but still it’s a pity being on a safety net; being last or just an option. All I can say is good luck to both of them. It’s just that I know there a lots people out there being on a safety net kind of relationship, I say just stop and find another one than clinging on to someone. It’s better to leave and be single than hoping for someone that no matter how you put your acts on him/her, nothing will ever happen rather than friendship. It’s true that being on a friend zone is different on being the lover.
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